Meet Eileen
Since turning 50, I've experienced 4 years of constant transition. New career, dissolved marriage, financial turmoil, a post-menopausal body., dating apps (!). The challenge has been staying grounded and confident - despite knowing that our culture doesn't always value the older woman
In our conversation, Amber mentioned a term she uses pertaining to boudoir sessions - "sensual reclamation" - and right then I knew I had to do this - for me and me only. I made the decision to book the session on my birthday as a way to celebrate myself and my successful navigation of a lot of recent and big life changes. Leading up to that day, I was giddy, hopeful, and expectant and a little anxious that I wouldn't photograph well. In addition to having fun shopping for outfits, I also had a great time building myself a playlist designed to evoke a sensual atmosphere. When the day arrived, I was packed and ready and full of excitement.
When I first arrived, I was definitely feeling anxious - mostly because I've never felt I was photogenic. During hair and makeup, I began to relax, and after shooting the first outfit, as Amber and I talked and got to know each other, I started to feel so at ease and to really have fun. I had chosen to bring some props and Amber was amazing at collaborating with me in the studio to set the kind of scene I was looking for. It was so fun to have this creative outlet to express myself and it was one of the highlights of my photo shoot.
Walking out of the shoot, I felt so alive - exultant and liberated. The experience has been transformative. I feel more vibrant, radiant, empowered and bold - more at home in myself than ever before.
Seeing all of the amazing images made me think "who knew that I could be this beautiful, sensual, confident woman?" There is this sense that I can embody whatever it is I want to be.
Be open to the possibilities of a boudoir experience. Consider it a safe space to explore and express yourself in a way that perhaps you've never done before. It could transform the way you see yourself, your sensuality and confidence.
Walk through this world knowing that you possess a wisdom that only comes with experience gained over time. Take care of you because no one else will encourage you and tend to your needs like you will. Treat yourself with kindness and do those things that lift up your spirit, making you feel alive and whole. You are a treasure.
