Woman in red lingerie lying confidently on a black rug, smiling at the camera during a boudoir photo shoot in a warmly lit studio.

Meet Shannon

November 17, 20256 min read

My decision to do a boudoir session was born out of a desire to feel confident and attractive again now that I have reached my 50’s. I felt that this type of photo session could be a powerful confidence booster and a way to celebrate my body and beauty, regardless of societal standards. It would be empowering to embrace who I’ve become and to use the opportunity to take control of my own body and life. It would also be a way to capture this moment in time, preserve a little bit of how I look and feel at this stage in my life.

Reaching the age of 50 can be both a time of reflection and newfound confidence. I have found that I am more self-assured and comfortable in my own skin than ever before. And while it may have taken some time, I now embrace my age with pride, recognizing the wisdom and life experience that I gained. I also find that my 50’s are a time of exploration and growth, rediscovering my hobbies and pursuing new interests.

Societal pressures and stereotypes about aging can make this transition challenging. I know that at times I have struggled with the physical changes that come with age or feel marginalized in a culture that celebrates youth. I feel it is important to recognize that these feelings are valid and that everyone's journey with aging is unique. But ultimately, the way I perceive myself in my 50s is a powerful testament to my resilience and strength. I’m trying to confidently embrace my age and find my way through various challenges.

As the session time neared, I was both excited and nervous. The idea of capturing myself in a beautiful, intimate way was a little thrilling. It was an opportunity to express my personality, sensuality, and confidence. I was looking forward to seeing myself through a different lens and creating memories that could be cherished. I was also a bit nervous. I was stepping out of my comfort zone, in a setting that was new and unfamiliar, and was a bit intimidated. I was concerned about how I might look or if the photos would turn out as imagined. I prepared by thinking about different outfits, planning poses, or even pampering myself with some self-care routines. Walking into the studio, I felt a flutter of butterflies in my stomach. But Amber quickly put me at ease, explaining the process and setting a relaxed, comfortable tone. As the session got underway, my nerves melted away and I really began to enjoy the experience, feeling more and more comfortable in front of the camera. Amber was so calming, guiding me through poses, and I began to see glimpses of the stunning images being captured.

There was plenty of laughs and conversation along the way. The casual but straightforward nature of the session help put me at ease and allow me to show my personality, and even surprised me with how much fun I was having. At times, I felt like I was making a pose that felt a bit silly but ended up looking fabulous on camera. There were moments when I felt a bit exposed or vulnerable but it was part of what made the session so empowering. By the end of the session, I felt a sense of accomplishment. I pushed through any insecurities and allowed myself to be seen in a new light. The entire experience left me feeling more confident, beautiful, and empowered.

As I left the session, I was exhilarated and felt a mix of pride and accomplishment. The nerves that I had at the beginning of the session melted away, replaced by a sense of confidence and self-assurance. I had a smile on my face, feeling like I have done something bold and beautiful for myself. And the positive effects of the session lingered. I had a boost in self-esteem and body positivity and the experience served as a reminder of my inner strength and beauty, and helped me carry that confidence into other aspects of my life. Every time I look at the photos from the session, those feelings of empowerment and self-love resurfaced, reminding me of the amazing experience and the courage it took to do it.

When I saw my boudoir photos for the first time it was profound and transformative. There was a moment of surprise seeing myself through Amber’s artistic lens that revealed a side of me that I had never seen before. There was a small sense of disbelief along with excitement and pride. The photos captured a beauty I didn’t know I had but also a sense of confidence. I found the experience incredibly empowering. The photos serve as a reminder of my strength, beauty, and individuality. They are a boost to my self-esteem and help me embrace my aging body and self-image more fully. For me, the experience is transformative. It changed the way I saw myself and how I feel about my body. The confidence and positivity from the session carried over into other areas of my life, helping me approach challenges with a newfound sense of self-assurance.

Everyone deserves to feel confident, beautiful, and empowered—no matter their age, size, or background. Boudoir sessions aren't about fitting a particular mold; they're about celebrating your unique beauty and personality. A boudoir session is about capturing what makes you special and showcasing your individuality. Boudoir photography is for anyone who wants to feel empowered and confident. It's an opportunity to see yourself in a new light and appreciate your own beauty and strength. With a photographer like Amber, she knows how to highlight your best features and make you feel comfortable. She will guide you through poses and angles that flatter and enhance your natural beauty. Stepping outside your comfort zone can be incredibly rewarding and many people find that a boudoir session helps them overcome insecurities and embrace a more positive self-image. It's a personal journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

Turning 50 can be a time of insecurity about your aging body and lack of confidence in yourself. What I would tell a woman struggling with this time in their life is to embrace their wisdom. You've accumulated so much knowledge and experience at this point in your life. Embrace the wisdom that comes with age—it's a gift that only deepens with time. You should also celebrate your accomplishments and take a moment to reflect on all that you've achieved. Whether big or small, your accomplishments are a testament to your resilience and determination. I would also say that beauty is timeless and true beauty transcends age. Your inner light, kindness, and confidence are what make you truly radiant. You are unique and your individuality is something to be celebrated, not compared. Your 50s and beyond are a time to explore passions, pursue dreams, and create new memories. Remember, age is just a number. Your spirit, energy, and enthusiasm for life are what truly define you. You are strong, beautiful, and capable of anything you set your mind to.

Relax and have fun with this time in your life. Having the confidence and experience of being an older women has a lot of benefits and allows you the freedom to express yourself however you want, pursue the hobbies or passions that you enjoy and worry less about how others perceive you. Love yourself more and it opens up a world of possibilities.

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